Fathers' experiences of having an infant born prematurely

Sammanfattning: The overall aim of this licentiate thesis was to describe fathers' experiences of having an infant born prematurely, with specific focuses on fathers' experiences from the birth and the experiences of being a father to a prematurely born infant. Qualitative research interviews were conducted with eight fathers of prematurely born infants, and their infant had been cared for at a neonatal intensive care unit (NICU). Data were analyzed using a thematic content analysis. This study shows that the birth of the premature infant was experienced by fathers as suddenly being in a situation they had never reflected on. The experience was surreal and because the fathers could not comprehend what was happening, they wanted to be informed about everything. Fathers prioritized the mother and the infant, and were guarding for their best, and as a consequence fathers almost neglected their own needs. The birth was stressful and filled with worries about their infant and the outcome. Fathers wanted to be with both the mother and the infant, and from the beginning, fathers became the link between them. Being involved and seen as a natural part in the care of the infant was something they wanted. Although the mother and infant were prioritized, fathers needed attention and needed to share their experiences with someone who could understand them. Despite that it took time to feel like a real father, the preterm birth made it possible to be with and know the infant. Fathers described growing emotions for the infant and by time they also felt more confident as a father. Although it was a stressful situation, gains were experienced; they changed as a person and were strengthened in the relationship to their partner. However, even with all the strain, fathers felt being fortunate. It is important for fathers of prematurely born infants to be met with openness and understanding for what they have gone through and listen to their unique experience of having an infant. These findings will help nurses working with fathers of preterm infants, in terms of providing adequate and ample support to the fathers.